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Sorrina Jolie De Noir · Recovery Strategist and Coach

My Story

You are worthy.You are enough.You are chosen.

Still Chosen/About/My Story

Welcome to Still Chosen. My name is Sorrina Jolie De Noir, and I have been on the other side of the room where someone decided who I was.

I was belittled, undermined, manipulated, falsely accused, and handed a verdict about my character that had nothing to do with my character. I rose out of a system of abuse more courageous, stronger, and enlightened than ever before. I did this with God. God judged my heart rather than my appearance. Moreover, He reminded me that I am loved, chosen, and worthy, that through the hardships, I am Still Chosen.

I had no roadmap, no support — therefore, I built a strategy, or rather a series of strategies, to surpass the fear, the hurt, and the betrayal that was designed to disrupt and destroy my life.

I am your companion and supporter who understands your plight. I will help you make sense of the challenges and devise systematic and strategic maneuvers to alleviate your situation. I am not a clinician, and I will never diagnose you. I reserve the right to decline working with you. Furthermore, I will give you the map you’ve been missing — a map tailored and personalised to you — to realign with your God-given power and authority, thus becoming your own hero/heroine.

How I work

Four movements, taken in order.

01 · S — See

We name it

What happened, in accurate words, without minimising or exaggerating it. Most people arrive having never once said it plainly.

02 · E — Empty

We put it down

The shame that was assigned to you goes back to whoever issued it. You stop being the custodian of someone else's verdict.

03 · A — Anchor

We rebuild your boundaries and standards

A self that stands without their agreement — regulation, boundaries you can say out loud, and a circle of people who believe you.

04 · M — Move

We move forward with purpose

The thing this made you uniquely able to do, and the first act that proves it. Purpose first. Happiness arrives second.

Sorrina Jolie De Noir writing at a table by the window
One usable tool at a time, written down so it is yours to keep.

What to expect

Plainly, before you commit to anything.

We talk first

A conversation before any arrangement, so we both know whether this is a fit. No obligation either way.

You leave with something

Every session ends with one tool and one practice you can use before we speak again. Not homework — a handhold.

You set the pace

Three days when something is imminent, six weeks to work it properly, or three months to rebuild. You choose the depth, and you can stop at any point.

You are never pressured

You will never be pressured to buy anything. This is an opportunity to reclaim your worth. That is a rule, not a courtesy.

What I am not

The limits, stated up front.

Not a clinician

I will never diagnose you, and nothing here replaces therapy, medical care or legal advice. Where you need those, I will say so and help you find them.

Not a substitute

If you are in danger, this is not the right first call. Contact your local emergency service.

Reverent about faith, never coercive

I rose out of it with God, and I will tell you so. I will not require it of you, and your recovery here does not depend on sharing it.

How I protect you

What you say stays yours.

Nothing is shared

What you tell me is not repeated, quoted or used as material. If anything is ever shared publicly, you decide, in writing, after you have seen it.

No one is named

I do not name an accused party, and identifying details are altered by default.

You can stop

You can end this at any point, without explaining why.

Who I decline

I reserve the right to say no.

When care comes first

If what you need is clinical or legal help before coaching, I will say so rather than take you on.

When the goal is revenge

I work on recovery, not retaliation. If the aim is to damage someone, I am the wrong person.

When it simply is not a fit

I would rather tell you honestly and point you somewhere better than take work I cannot do well.

None of this is a test you can fail. It is what I owe you before you trust me with any of it.

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