Sorrina Jolie De Noir on a clifftop above the sea at sunset

Sorrina Jolie De Noir · Recovery Strategist and Coach

You are not what was done to you; you are the sum of your responses to what happened to you.

My Story

Still Chosen›My Story
You are worthy.You are enough.You are chosen.

Welcome to Still Chosen,

My name is Sorrina Jolie De Noir, and I have been on the other side of the room where someone decided who I was — often through quick evaluations, like a product on a shelf. I was violated, humiliated, undermined, belittled, and falsely accused of being a liar, a fake, and a deviant of all sorts. The injury to my character disseminated rapidly and publicly, impacting all areas of my life.

At work, I was labelled incompetent; in relationships, I was deemed unworthy; in my family, I was scapegoated; and in friendships, I was competed against. I was stripped of my humanity and my basic right to human decency. Collective duplicity and complicity were considered acceptable, with a convoluted narrative making harmful behaviours seem morally justified.

I rose out of systemic dehumanisation and abuse more courageous, stronger, and more liberated than ever before. I did this with God, who judged my heart rather than my appearance. He reminded me that I am loved, worthy, and chosen — that throughout all the hardships, all the pain, and all the betrayal, I am Still Chosen.

I had no roadmap, no support, and no kindness that I could count on. So I built a strategy to surpass the fear, the hurt, and the betrayal that were designed to disrupt and destroy my life. I stopped being accountable for someone else’s verdict.

I stopped participating and called back my power. I observed what was going on around me. I named it — every person and every moving part. I wrote everything down. How did it make me feel? When did it occur? Why was it even made possible? Then came the reframe: I wrote what was true to me. I refused the narrative and wrote the truth from my experiences. Then I returned the verdict and moved forward.

I do not know what is going on in your life, but what I do know is that you are loved, you are cared for, and you are wanted. If there is no one around, God’s love is eternal and unyielding. Start today by loving yourself. Make your first act of kindness the one you give to yourself. Maybe one day I will hear your story of recovery.

Sorrina Jolie De NoirRecovery Strategist and Coach

What We Do

Still Chosen helps the high achiever and ambitious person to strategically create a personal defence system against manipulation and covert abuse — so that they can recover, develop resiliency, and grow stronger and better after every challenge or setback.

The how, in four movements:

01 · S — See

We name it

What happened, in accurate words, without minimising or exaggerating it. Most people arrive having never once said it plainly.

02 · E — Empty

We put it down

The shame that was assigned to you goes back to whoever issued it. You stop being the custodian of someone else's verdict.

03 · A — Anchor

We rebuild your boundaries and standards

A self that stands without their agreement — regulation, boundaries you can say out loud, and a circle of people who believe you.

04 · M — Move

We move forward with purpose

The thing this made you uniquely able to do, and the first act that proves it. Purpose first. Happiness arrives second.

I am not a clinician. I will never diagnose you, and nothing here replaces therapy, medical care, or legal advice.

The next step

Book a consultation.

Express your thoughts fully and what you hope to achieve during our session. I will reply promptly to your inquiry.

The call costs nothing — if none of the programmes fits, I will say so.

  • Thirty minutes, free, no obligation
  • Camera optional, always
  • You can cancel with one line and no explanation
  • Seven-day full refund, no explanation owed

Step one · choose your time Choose a time

Pick the slot that suits you and it is yours. A confirmation and a private video link arrive straight away — nothing to install, and you can move or cancel it from that email.

Step two · tell me about it

The calendar holds your slot; this is the part only you can tell me. Seven fields, five of them required. Nothing you write here goes anywhere else.

Not yet — choose a time first. It opens in a new tab, and this page keeps everything you have already typed.

I reply personally, usually within 2–3 business days.

Your request is in.

I look forward to meeting you. I read every request myself and consider whether this work will genuinely help. If one of the programmes fits, I will tell you which and why. If none of them does — not now, or not at all — I will tell you that too, and point you towards what might serve you better. The next step is the call itself, at the time you picked — the calendar has already sent you the link.

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